There are 195 countries in the world. I chose the United States of America.

Hello, USA.
There are 50 states in the country. I chose Massachusetts. (Which, FYI, is a Commonwealth.)

Ah, the Commonwealth.
There are 351 cities and towns in Massachusetts. I chose Boston.

Okay, it looks a LITTLE different now.
I didn’t grow up in the city. I didn’t even grow up in the suburbs. I wouldn’t even call it an exurb! My hometown is what the Massachusetts Legislature calls a ‘Gateway City.’ (No connection to Wonder Woman’s hometown.) Under Massachusetts state law, Gateway Cities have a population between 35,000 and 250,000, an average household income below the state average, and an average educational attainment rate below the state average. Most of these communities are former industrial centers.
Many of my hometown friends still live in my hometown. A lot of them are married, have children, own homes. They aren’t clamoring for available apartments, worrying about who lives above or below them. They’re in detached, single-family homes, not cramped one-bedroom units. Walk-in closets instead of pop-up Target specials. Kitchen islands, not a kitchen in a closet. I will not be able to afford a lot of these things when I buy my first home in the city. That, friends, is a City Limit.

City Limit. Literally.
House parties, backyard barbecues, and attached garages are probably out of my price range. Another City Limit.
What if I decide to have children? Most people I know who grew up in the city didn’t attend public schools. After reading a recent Boston Globe article about the public school lottery system, I understand why a lot of parents might be uncomfortable with putting their kids in the school system. Personally, I cherished my public school education. I attended a private college and I found the atmosphere stifling. I didn’t feel that way at my high school. There are a number of schools in Boston. Some are good, some are bad. Would I want my children at one of those schools? Potential City Limit.

When I first lived in Boston, my apartment was robbed. Cash, jewelry, and electronics
were taken from my then-roommate and me. The jewelry was mostly of sentimental value; I lost items I can never replace. I wasn’t home for the robbery, thankfully, but it left me feeling nervous and anxious for weeks. I consider Boston a safe city, but I know that’s not true in every neighborhood. I don’t know if I can afford the home I want in a neighborhood that will make me feel safe. That’s a City Limit.
I have a car. I park it on the street outside my door. Pretty convenient! Mostneighborhoods in the city are not car-friendly. Am I ready to say goodbye to my beloved car? Walk to work in the rain and snow? Wait for the MBTA? City Limit.

So long, savings.
Of course, 50% of life’s guarantees — taxes — are going to be higher in a city. (And I guess death, too, if you look back to my crime and safety concerns!) Taxes are higher, cost of living is higher. Milk costs about $5.25 per gallon next to my apartment. Not cool. City Limit.
Clearly, there are a lot of reasons not to move to the city. And yet…. I still want to be here.
What do you hate most about city living?
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